So, The BIRD

Do you cook a turkey for Thanksgiving? Despite my flirtatious relationship with veganism, I do partake in some bird eating on holidays. But I’m wondering of other ways to celebrate a main course, sans bird. One vegetarian told me she puts the stuffing in between two pieces of bread and makes a sandwich.  To which […]

Love in the Time of Thanksgiving

Last week, I attended mass in El Salvador and the priest was from the United States.  He explained to the Salvadoran congregation that in the United States, we have entire day devoted to giving thanks and being grateful for all that we have.  What a romantic idea – an entire nation, the only superpower nation, […]

Letter 15

Dear Isaiah, There are four major milestones that have occurred in the past two weeks.  On Tuesday, November 9, you kneeled in front of the one-step landing which leads to the staircase and, after several minutes of contemplation, climbed your first step on your own.  It took some contorting of your chubby limbs and some […]

When ‘More’ is Less: The Mistakes of Creating Fem/icons

Early this week, I returned to the United States to find More magazine running a feature on the new feminist faces and find the majority of them fair(er) skinned, dimploma-ed, English speaking, internet-friendly activists. I shake my head at the latest case of mainstream feminism’s narcissistic identity crisis, led or diagnosed primarily by US-centric feminists […]

Free Write on…”Recovery”

i keep using the word “recovery” like i just went through something that caused trauma or pain, when in actuality, i went through something that made me feel more alive. so, am i recovering from being alive?  going back to being less alive or…? i am recovering from exhaustion, dehydration, fatigue, being “on” the whole […]

One Camera, A Thousand Hearts

I was seventeen when photography lured me into the world of light, shadow, color, and movement.  Pretty pictures.  Everyone likes pretty pictures.  Everyone loves sunsets and gardens, children, and triumphant moments.  Documented agony at the finish line or a warrior athlete are crowd favorites. But I never grasped the power of portrait until now. I […]

Got Inspiration?

Me:  I think one of the scariest things is to think of myself at 70, unsuccessful in trying to write and finding nothing good coming from me.  I’m just going to feel like shit. Nick:  Well, try to think of yourself at 70 and not having tried at all and finding you still feel like […]